October 13, 2009

29 Ways To Create A New Habit That’ll Stick

create new habitsIt’s easy to develop bad habits, but when it comes down to the good ones, it’s a little bit tougher.

I’m sure most of us have been through a similar scenario. Maybe you’ve set a new year’s resolution for yourself or to accomplish a new goal you needed to create a new habit. Yet, try as we might, we often fall prey to laziness, procrastination, negative self-talk, or disorganization.

You get the idea.

But with a little help (and a few tips and tricks), ingraining new good behavior can become just as easy. Check out this article below from ZenHabits on 29 ways to create a new GOOD habit.

The Habit Change Cheatsheet: 29 Ways to Successfully Ingrain a Behavior

From ZenHabits.net

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. — Aristotle

Our daily lives are often a series of habits played out through the day, a trammeled existence fettered by the slow accretion of our previous actions.

But habits can be changed, as difficult as that may seem sometimes.

I’m a living example: in tiny, almost infinitesimal steps, I’ve changed a laundry list of habits. Quit smoking, stopped impulse spending, got out of debt, began running and waking early and eating healthier and becoming frugal and simplifying my life and becoming organized and focused and productive, ran three marathons and a couple of triathlons, started a few successful blogs, eliminated my debt … you get the picture.

It’s possible.

And while I’ve written about habit change many times over the course of the life of Zen Habits, today I thought I’d put the best tips all together in one cheatsheet, for those new to the blog and for those who could use the reminders.

Keep it simple
Habit change is not that complicated. While the tips below will seem overwhelming, there’s really only a few things you need to know. Everything else is just helping these to become reality.

The simple steps of habit change:

1. Write down your plan.

2. Identify your triggers and replacement habits.

3. Focus on doing the replacement habits every single time the triggers happen, for about 30 days.

That’s it. We’ll talk more about each of these steps, and much more, in the cheatsheet below.

The Habit Change Cheatsheet
The following is a compilation of tips to help you change a habit. Don’t be overwhelmed — always remember the simple steps above. The rest are different ways to help you become more successful in your habit change.

1. Do just one habit at a time. Extremely important. Habit change is difficult, even with just one habit. If you do more than one habit at a time, you’re setting yourself up for failure. Keep it simple, allow yourself to focus, and give yourself the best chance for success. Btw, this is why New Year’s resolutions often fail — people try to tackle more than one change at a time.

2. Start small. The smaller the better, because habit change is difficult, and trying to take on too much is a recipe for disaster. Want to exercise? Start with just 5–10 minutes. Want to wake up earlier? Try just 10 minutes earlier for now. Or consider half habits.

3. Do a 30-day Challenge. In my experience, it takes about 30 days to change a habit, if you’re focused and consistent. This is a round number and will vary from person to person and habit to habit. Often you’ll read a magical “21 days” to change a habit, but this is a myth with no evidence. Seriously — try to find the evidence from a scientific study for this. A more recent study shows that 66 days is a better number (read more). But 30 days is a good number to get you started. Your challenge: stick with a habit every day for 30 days, and post your daily progress updates to a forum.

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5 Responses to 29 Ways To Create A New Habit That’ll Stick
  1. Steve @ Freedom Education
    October 16, 2009 | 2:30 pm

    Hi Gabrielle,

    I’ve been following Leo @ ZenHabits.net for some time (at least 2 years now) and it’s refreshing to see you guys share this article from Leo with your readers.

    I like Leo’s concept of a trigger and using it to start a new habit. In NLP there is a similar concept, except you use the trigger as the starting point to a new experience you want (which could be habit) and the change can take place in less than 10 minutes. The reason it works so fast (and why some people don’t believe it) is because it works directly with the subconscious mind.

    It’s really simple once you get the hang of it but there is definitely a skill involved here. Thanks for the great read and all the very best,

  2. kotesh
    October 21, 2009 | 10:48 am

    hi gabrielle,
    liked the idea of using new good habit to kick the harmful habit whenever the urge triggers, I promise to take your tips to protect my future and the sake of my family
    thanks and regards,
    kotesh

  3. neelam
    January 19, 2010 | 7:32 pm

    hi gabriella

    I like the new idea I am trying from tomorrow ok let us see it works because I am lazy to do exercise every day because I am accountant sitting ten to twelve hours one place. thank for new idea.

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