April 29, 2009

No, The Law Of Attraction Won’t Force Someone To Love you

Unrequited loveWe hear about the Law of Attraction almost everywhere nowadays.  And yes it’s amazing but it’s definitely not a free pass at life. You still have to work hard, nail the opportunities that come by you, and stay focused.

The Law of Attraction is not a magic wand or some sort of voodoo that you can use to bend people to your will.  Nor will it magically make a million dollars in cold hard cash appear before you while you sit at home, watching TV, eating chips.

I found this article that outlines the basic WON’Ts of the Law of Attraction.  It gives 10 things the Law of Attraction won’t do for you or anyone else.

Remember, above all else, that each and every one of us may have amazing and unlimited power but it only pertains to ourselves.

Before you share your comments and stories with us, I want you to think about these three things when using the Law of Attraction:

  • Are you doing this solely for yourself or for someone else?
  • If you are trying to attract more wealth, for what reason is it?  (a bigger house, a new car, a family vacation, etc.)
  • Are there any negative implications at all for what you want to manifest?

“10 Things You Can’t Do With The Law Of Attraction

For the record, I am a total believer in the Law of Attraction. You can call it universal consciousness, the power of intention, conscious creation — whatever.

No matter what you call it, or how you define it, the simple truth remains that human beings have the ability to manipulate their lives in order to get exactly what they want, and that thought fills me with joy on a regular basis.

However, the problems start when people start thinking along the lines of “Well, if I have unlimited power, then I can manipulate other people as well”.

Ummm…no, it doesn’t work that way. Each person does have unlimited power, but their power is over themselves and their own experiences, not to control other people’s lives. Can you imagine the chaos if we were all imbued with the ability to control each other’s thoughts and actions like pieces on a chess board??

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7 Responses to No, The Law Of Attraction Won’t Force Someone To Love you
  1. Rachel
    May 5, 2009 | 12:45 am

    This article gives credit to the positive forces of nature , that have been revealed to the world; and guides us with your well-being in mind, to the best core of ourselves. Great Job!!! Keep up the phenomenal work!!!!!

    RR-CA

  2. Gwenalyn Fritchel
    May 5, 2009 | 8:42 pm

    First of all, the word, “force” indicates resistance. The word resistance is not synonomous with “attraction.” Resist vs. Attract. So the entire article here is ridiculous. The law of attraction is simply what it is „, Attraction.

  3. Ra
    May 7, 2009 | 1:37 am

    Sorry Gwenalyn Fritchel .….…
    To me “Force” means pressure against something to make a change, some things change when force is exerted and there is no resistance .…… so one can have force without resistance
    Resistance, to me, is pressure against change .….….…
    I do agree though, as in “The word resistance is not synonomous with “attraction.” “Resist vs. Attract.” .…… Opposites do sometimes attract as maybe many couples would most likely agree .….. no ?

  4. shapshifting Bear
    May 7, 2009 | 3:00 pm

    You said we are in total control of ourselves . if its the universal consciosness then its universal and it is our universal concious
    and we can control our selves so.. some ancient teachings say that everyone is connected and essentially the same person so how could we not be able to control someone else.….
    you can email me back and i aggree wit fitchel about force

    Dragonslayer41192@yahoo.com

  5. Most people are weak-minded simpletons that can easily be mentally dominated with a variety of techniques; Sad, but true.
    However, this article is correct in that The Law of Attraction does not appear to be one of them.

  6. Tewodros
    October 20, 2009 | 12:21 am

    You have said about law of attraction,fors is to me it could be attraction because to pool some thing to ward you, you need fors, it could be also resistanc because to oppos some thing not to happen you need to have fors. And every one have special ability to attract things to ward one self, but this depends on the capacity of the thing to be attracted. For example the moon has especial ability to attract things but can not attract the earth.so some people may or my not do some thing on others it dependes on the weakness and streanth of the people to be influenced or influencing.

  7. piya
    June 3, 2010 | 6:12 am

    hi vishen

    plz dont mind, bt i like u, can v becom frnds,
    u can b busy,bt ull never find a frnd like me.

    urs piya

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