Often what you dislike or find annoying about someone else is a reflection of yourself. It may turn out that it is a deep-seeded issue that only you can deal with. Once that is solved, you may view the person in a whole new light.
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Thanks, you postet this absolutely at the right time.
Why would you hate someone, I am talking about normal all day life. I can imagine that a person grates on your soul like a kid scratching with his fingernails over a blackboard, but hating someone? Why, you do not have to deal with someone you may not like.
Oh by the way, I have no desire to Twitter/tweet. There is not desire to listen to someone whom I do not know. I am curious to listen to a stranger on the bus when he/she tells about her his life and I may contribute, but when I want to really talk to someone, I talk to a friend or my brother who is also my friend. To the rest of mankind I smile.
Strange thinking.
If u judge someone
if u r irritated by someone
if u want to correct someone
u hate a part of yrself that u see in the other. Forgive yrself first and see how the other changes!
My Mom always said that if you hate someone you only hurt yourself because the person that you don’t like is off doing their thing and you are are the one still fretting about it — let it go! Like the Old Monk and the Young Monk — the Old Monk had just picked up a lady to carry her across the water and then dropped her on the other side — the Young Monk went on fretting about the wrong that the Old Monk had done all day — he carried the lady all day — let it go!!!! Have a LIGHT day!!!
Pat