Sean with Vishen and Mike
Alright, it's finally up! Sean Stephenson's second part of Making Love, Not War – How To Create A Deep Attraction.
I've said it before and I'll say it again. Sean is a magnet. He draws people in like moths to a flame. It's nothing weird or voodoo-esque. It's just because of his immense compassion and how he treats each person with the utmost respect. You can literally feel his vibe from the videos.
In this part, Sean will be going over the The Ultimate 2 Needs And Wants Of Men And Women.
Before you say, "Only 2 needs?" remember, Sean has been through it all and then some.
So here is Sean's long awaited second part on creating a deep attraction. And this time, it's all about what men and women want. You'll be surprised at what these 2 needs are. But the more I thought about it, the more I realized how true everything he said was.
Things might get a little naughty, so viewers be warned 
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Oh, and if you missed the first part of this series, no worries, it's right here >> And if you're already wanting the 3rd and last part, don't fret, it's coming up.
For those who don't know, Sean's also got his own personal blog that's coming up soon. You can get more info on it over here >>
So enjoy:
The Ultimate 3 Needs And Wants Of Men And Women
Segment 1
Segment 2
Segment 3
I just have one question for you after you watch this video. How have these 2 much needed characteristics played a part in your life? I want to know your honest opinions so feel free to drop a comment and let loose.
And don't forget, if you want more info on Sean's new blog and you're interested in getting early notification, just check out this page >>
Cheers,
Vishen
You had me in the first 3 minutes. I am one of those guys who lived off my good looks and charisma until I turned 60. Looks don't last and I have been on a mission to be comfortable with what I have been given. When you are happy with you it becomes a magnet for women. I like what you said about arrogance and confidence. I have been working on me for 19 months now and I can see the difference. I am more attractive to the opposite sex now than I was when I was a young looking 50 yrs. old. Thanks for being available to all of out there.
amazing stuff Sean! Can't wait to see your last part in the series and your new blog too.
this dude is bringing joy, humour and knowledge all at the same time.
Sean - you rock.
This is awesome. It is funny, wise, illuminating, and thought-provoking. I cannot wait for the next part - and your blog. Sean, you not only rock, you are the Temple of the Living God.
All my love and gratitude for the opportunity to be part of this adventure. I look forward to the next visit.
Taiwo
Sean - have loved the first 2 parts and can't wait for the 3rd!!
Your insight is astounding!
I think I've been both too adventurous and too maternal at different stages of my life and I'm sure Sean is right when he says men can be either too confident or too playful for a woman to be comfortable with him. I like his analysis and his delivery.
Best relationship builder I've ever come across. Many thanks to Sean for sharing his insight with us to create more harmonizing relationships!
Beautiful, thought-provoking, and I would even go so far as to say hilarious! Sean, you are an amazing human being. You had me hanging on your every word, and I'm anxiously awaiting both part 3 and the launch of your blog.
You are so spot-on with your observations of people and what makes them tick that I am literally flabbergasted. Even listening to the section on what men find attractive about women opened my eyes to parts of myself I hadn't really known were there, and left me thinking, "Wow, that's right!" Thinking back over previous relationships I was engaged in that ultimately deteriorated, it all makes more sense to me now. What I've done, what they did, and the timing of me hearing this talk could not have been more perfect. Thank you so much for your insight, your wisdom, and for sharing your observations on the human condition. You are an inspiration to all.
I've heard the concepts of humor and confidence are real turn on's for wemon and looking back at good relationships I've had; when I lost one or both things due to stress or being over my head in other life areas, the relationship would go bad quickly. Never was able to put my finger on the qualities in wemon, for as attraction to them but "mothering" and adventure make perfect sense. Look forward to seeing your video's on attraction.
Made my afternoon! I laughed so hard! Thank God we have people like Sean to guide us out of the hokiness of false advice gurus like The Rules. I remember an aunt giving me that book when I was 18 years old and wondering "why?" It's a bunch of games. Bravo to Finer Minds! You guys rock...
Sean,
I hope to speak to people as relaxed as you do one day 
When I saw Part 1, I thought I was just going to watch a minute of your talk. Now, I am absolutely glued to each series! I can not wait for the next part! I love how honest, comfortable, and open you are with your audience! You are my inspiration
Thank you so much for your help !!
Livia Taravella
Hi - just to say that Sean has a masterful way of speaking and relating to the people in the room. He had me in tears of laughter in this section, just as he had me in tears of sadness in the first section.
Can't wait for part three!
Euan
wow... that was a bit of a shocker... You do know it's true, but... you never thought it's that important...
And Sean is such an amazing person
! Thank you Sean 
!!! The most confident and with a great sense of humor man out there 
!
thank you sean! this was my first time ever seeing or hearing you speak. so wise, so entertaining... you're the real thing and i can't wait for more
Sean, you are an awesome man! ... I found everything you had to say was true ... it's funny when something resonates with you, it causes one to laugh - of course it depends on what it is - but when it's one of those "aha" moments, one has a tendency to laugh ... why, because you recognize truth of self or something you already knew but maybe couldn't put a finger on it ... Thank you Sean ... I'm looking forward to seeing the last segment to Making Love not War .
thanks for been in my times.thanks for crosing my life best advice ever from a guy.
Thanks Sean, you really reminded me that we are creators, and our limitations are only in our mind, and our forms have nothing to do with what we can create, very inspiring and funny, and I look forward to what pearls you give us next.
Fantastic! I released so much stress just watching these videos. Can scarcely wait for the next one. Best Wishes Sean.
Sean, THANK YOU!! Wow, incredible, insightful stuff!! Thank you so much for sharing it with the world...I am BOTH - compassionate and affectionate...the guy was a prince but may be turning into a king
Now I am armed with more knowledge when he does come back around...I can't wait 'til the 3rd segment!!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart!! 
great stuff! thank you...it's all so simple, and so incredibly true! how often have we had both essentials in a relationship, but the "balance" was off- or, it starts out great with compassion and adventure only to have one of the two dominate and the relationship is over."I already have a biological mother!!"...too funny.
Hey Sean,
You have your act together. You know what you are talking about. You are a joy to behold and I am a fan. I will recommend you to others I know.
Love and Blessings X 10,
Ed
It's so true... everything he said... I've met guys that if there aren't confident I can't get past the first date. Confidence in themselves, in the future, in their dreams and goals, believing things will work out... if they seem pessimistic that's a killer...
and me, I'm learning to have the balance between compassion and adventure... BUT I can't wait for the "Sean's attraction killers" next week, maybe that's what happen in my relationship and there's no solution to it... or maybe there is hope... hopefully there will be...
THANKS SEAN!! I LOVE IT!!
WOW Unbelievably revealing, and so amazing to see and realize, how deep Sean knows the human nature,mind, reactions,emotions of both men and women....Excellent, and so helpful for every relationship...Thank you Sean, you're the greatest
Suze
Sean,
Thanks for the insight, the humour, the confidence ... looking forward to part 3!
Smiles from
An Adventurous Mothering Female.
Starshine
Noooo! I can't wait another week to know the killer and builder of attraction?!?
This is powerful Truths, I am so baffled I have not seen them before! Thank you so much, Sean, you really are a magnet! And probably my relationship-savior, too XD
Waiting in anticipation up in Norway for part 3!
Definitely Sean has got it right. Be hysterical only adds to the hysteria, but staying calm, being the tree, is a much better plan. Unfortunately it took this 50+ year old too long to figure that for himself.
Sean's doing a great job teaching this to younger ones.
SEAN YOU ARE VERY WISE HOW OLD ARE YOU?
Sean, your insights are awesome. I really would like just one clarification though - How do you keep the balance between compassion and adventure - how to say stop? for eg: the guy keeps pushing you to be more adventurous and when you are - enjoys the moment - but later can't look you in the eye for a few days and is kinda/ sotta ashamed - if you know what I mean - and then actually - jokingly - makes weird remarks about how ofter have you done stuff etc - which gets me mad. How to know stop and still keep him happy?
Sean is gifted with such a knowledge and wisedom that we all need to develop a relationship that is secure and lasts.
Thank you Sean.
Great the knowledge you have and the amazing way you convey it.
Blessings,
Thank You
Sorry, I absolutely do NOT agree.
thank you for your wisdom and humor.
awesome. just what i needed this morning. i wish the people who need it the most would look at this and contemplate.
Greetings Sean:
Boy do we need you around! When truth is present, it is palpable, resonant and you've missed nothing in your scrupulous research. Your mode of delivery is utterly human and trustworthy and peppered.
Your mention of the homosexual 'take' was not lost on me - those dynamics of which you speak relate in such interesting and wonderful ways (sometimes subtle, sometimes in your face) that it is an area that must needs be explored and communicated because of the paucity of compassionate and intelligent guidance in this arena of experience.
Bless you for being a Sun.
Respectfully yours, Peter
Blessings, beautiful Sean, for stating the core elements of human intelligence, beauty, truth, compassion and love! And - for giving us a vision of compatibly-balanced relationship. Souls like you inspire us all -- one thoughtful reminder at a time. I love you.
I guess was lucky somebody send me this mail & was moved to see all three segments of the video clips ,Keep up the great reasearch going buddy you are great
What an amazing, lovely, brilliance!
Sean shines above every "motivational speaker" I have experienced, because he is so very much MORE than JUST a motivation. He's neither a prod nor a pundit. Sean is a Master who (sometimes gently, sometimes abruptly... but always nimbly!) reaches way, way into The Conflicted Me to tap me on the heart and to lovingly show The Way...and always with spot-on honesty, humour and genuine connectedness.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!
Hi Sean,
Wow, THANK YOU so much for these videos! I have so many questions, I don't even know what to ask. I look forward to hearing more from you! Thank you for sharing your time, your wisdom and yourself!
light and love
t:)
yess, yess! sean, you make my blocks fit more smoothly!... many, many thanks for light shining and showing all this! you are a very firm & funny baobab!... thank you for generously spreading your vibe! :-}
Thank you. I have never heard of you until now. I can now look at my 13 year marriage in a much different way. I had never thought of attraction to another person as being about the energy each person exudes. It explains a lot regarding my marriage. I am hoping this info will help me steer our relationship in a better direction.
This is the real deal RIGHT HERE! Sean you are amazing. I totally agree for the men and women part that compassion and adventurous side and the confidence and sense of humor. I have both the compassion and adventurous but how do I make my opposite sex understand to have that balance of confidence and sense of humor for himself? I want to enjoy what he has to offer as well; not just me offer him what he needs.
thanks for all of these insights, you are amazing.
I wish you the best! <333
Wow! I wish my soon to be ex husband had been able to watch this. Valuable insight and new hope for a future relationship.
Thank you for sharing.
much warmth,
Ashley
Sean,
You are just one amazing person. I have been in the PUA community for a while, and its only lately that I have been getting into things such as confidence and self esteem.
Most of it is built around pickup lines, being arrogant etc.
I am very thankful for your videos and you are one of my biggest influence for a more joyous life.
Faisal.
Sean,
You have amazing energy.
Thank you for sharing.
YOu have given me clarity and simplified the complex.
I look forward to part 4.
Just like Leila....i have been to maternal most of my life and the adventurous part has been hidden under depression, problems and at times its not there. Balance of both is something I have to practice..practice and practice.
Much love to you
mel
I am neither tall, dark or handsome (well I do have a good tan) and I don't have a lot of money. So I'm surprised, and delighted when a woman is attracted to me. It happens regularly. So now I finally understand. I am rather steady, like a tree, and I have a great sense of humor (I get all my material from Seinfeld). But I am also serious, sometimes dead serious. So thanks. Really, I never understood this. I am looking forward to more.
This is so real and you need to work at it till it is just second nature in your life and your life will be great.
Thank you Sean! What an awesome video! Very insightful and entertaining. I've watched part one and part two and I'm looking forward for the part three.
You're so amazing!
Jocelyn
Exellent video! Thank you Sean,you're the gretest.
Best Wishes,
Helen
Sean these videos are amazing and you my friend are incredibly intuitive and insightful. I have been on a spiritual path for several years now truly seeking to know myself. Only until recently have I been contemplating the complexities of human romantic relationships and I have to tell you your wisdom has been like a burst of sunshine on a summer morning! I look forward to hearing more from you. Keep up the good work.
Wes
Sean. You're amazing human with wonderful knowledge and simply words you be helping thousands people you're very
Stunning being.
The best to the best wisdom.
Love Nettie
Thanks, Sean!!! You've answered some very important questions I had as to why I've attracted certain (good) people - and what I'm looking for now.
Can't wait for part 3!!
Love and gratitude
Diane
Sean, Thank you for showing us the way. I am in a beautiful, loving, an peaceful relationship (at last). We are a great example of the truth you shared. I'm 52 and my husband 57. We met the first time when I was 15 and didn't appreciate all the wonderful qualities he had. 35 years later we re-united and were married within 4 months. I live in KC Missouri and he was in Canada. All is well........You are delightful!!!! We try to make things so complicated. Bless you, jana
Wow, so simple yet so profound! I found myself hanging on every word looking forward to more of Sean's insight~ Thanks
Sean, I only regret not having heard of it before, but from now on im taking more care about the expectations of my new partner (both sides); best wishes e abraço Liliana
Sean, a friend sent me a link to your videos and I understand why. I teach basically the same things you do but you say it SOOOO much better than I do. You offer such clarity and do so with such style, I see why you are touching people so deeply. I'm now an official fan and will tell others about you.
From my heart to yours,
Kara Oh
The Heart Whisperer
That was AWSOME!!! Both my husband and i watched the 3 videos and laughed, agreed and had fun. Thank you thank you thank you Sean. Namaste
What an emotional impact, I was laughing and crying at the same time.
Thank you Sean for your words of Truth.
You made me laugh.
Your analogy of the tree and wind is the likeness of the full moon glow in the night.
Clearly your cup is relatively empty nor full:o
Vishen!
In a word - RUDE! To cut it off sooooo abruptly!!!
can not wait...
Dear Sean, Your re wonderful.You re a gift from God to us all.God Bless you and Keep you.Looking very forward for your next video and blogs
Sean, thank you for being a wonderful conduit of the expression and spirit of love. I am also thankful for the comments made by others because it clarified true gratitude and I know see what it means to be thankful. You are utterly ATTRACTIVE!
Love & Light,
My Heart
Sean:
You are SO spot on and tell it like it is and hilarious too! Thinking back to when my husband and I first met and what I wanted in a man was everything that you said! It is also worth mention that I attracted him into my life when I "no longer had anything to prove". Amazing!
Now you sir are an extra- ordinary man. Very insightful... do please continue.. ha ha ha God knows I could do with some insightful advice oH yes I do...ha ha ha