http://daily.finerminds.com/relationships/dont-get-weird-on-me-but-people-dont-like-you/ Your daily dose of personal growth Thu, 18 Mar 2010 13:26:34 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 http://daily.finerminds.com/relationships/dont-get-weird-on-me-but-people-dont-like-you/comment-page-1/#comment-18215 Babs Sun, 07 Mar 2010 15:50:57 +0000 http://daily.finerminds.com/?p=4323#comment-18215 Sorry...but I disagree. We all want everyone to like us. Like George Costanza in the episode where Jerry's girlfriend, the masseuse, simply does not like it...it becomes his obsession to find out why. Nobody likes a "toned down" argument about such a hot topic. We simply cannot fathom when someone does not like us and want to know why...call it people pleasing if you must...I call it a gut twist...we must be liked...by everyone. And the reasons for dislike can be as varied as the weather...it is taboo to discuss it...jealousy, resentment, flashbacks to someone else...endless reasons. BUT DON'T GIVE ME THAT...JUST ACCEPT IT CRAP. I, like George Costanza...MUST BE LIKED!! Sorry…but I disagree. We all want everyone to like us. Like George Costanza in the episode where Jerry’s girlfriend, the masseuse, simply does not like it…it becomes his obsession to find out why. Nobody likes a “toned down” argument about such a hot topic. We simply cannot fathom when someone does not like us and want to know why…call it people pleasing if you must…I call it a gut twist…we must be liked…by everyone. And the reasons for dislike can be as varied as the weather…it is taboo to discuss it…jealousy, resentment, flashbacks to someone else…endless reasons. BUT DON’T GIVE ME THAT…JUST ACCEPT IT CRAP. I, like George Costanza…MUST BE LIKED!!

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