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By: Marilyn

Marilyn — Mon, 17 Aug 2009 04:09:31 +0000

A very informative and wonderful article. Thank you!

By: Pat

Pat — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 16:52:04 +0000

This is all well and good, but how to get your significant other to even begin to contemplate this aspect of the relationship is where I am stalled.

By: Lane

Lane — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 06:40:32 +0000

We have such high expectations of sexual relationships. We think that the other person should be able to give us the ultimate just because they love us/we love them/etc. When we feel comfortable and at ease with someone men can have erections where they used to have impotence and woman can have orgasms where they previously had none. During sex you can gently guide your partners hand where you want it to go rather than stopping and talking about what you like. Or simple words: harder, softer, faster, etc., are also much more useful than a whole conversation. During sex some encouragement goes a long way: tell them how wonderful it is. After sex you can reinforce this by saying: “I loved it when you were… etc.,.” During day-to-day life it’s also useful to be playful and flirt with your partner, letting them know you find them attractive and sexy every day and in every situation. General respect, love and appreciation for your partner also go a long way to helping you have meaningful and enjoyable sex. Remember, each time you have sex it will be different… some days it won’t be quite as enjoyable or it will be more rushed, etc, depending on each partner. Just go with the flow and don’t expect each time to be mindblowing but rather enjoy sometimes nurturing and at other times being nurtured.

By: John

John — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 05:23:49 +0000

Excellent article! I agree that communication is absolutely essential in a relationship as well as in the bedroom. If it feels good, let them know. If it doesn’t, let them know, just nicely.

By: Keith

Keith — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 16:29:06 +0000

I totally agree with the fact that more discussion about sex would alleviate problems in marriage. Coming from a strict background in religion, I can tell you that the mention of sex would turn away the religious zealots. Never in my 32 years in religion did I hear the admonition to have more sex with your spouse. My hat is off to the pastor from Texas. I am also in Texas and probably should start looking for his church. The whole topic of sex is taboo to the majority of people that were once my associates.

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kookimebux — Sun, 01 Feb 2009 18:42:42 +0000

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By: Orvelyn

Orvelyn — Sat, 01 Nov 2008 21:56:16 +0000

After 8 years of no sexual intimacy I have met someone who has rekindled that part of me. We have not had sex yet, but have been discussing our preferences and I can see where starting and stopping will be useful for my re-introduction to this form of connecting with this man on a deeper level. I especially liked the section about letting go. I can see where I have put too much emphasis on attaining orgasm that I took the pleasure out of the sexual act, and find this advice to be very helpful.

By: RONALD M. NORRIS

RONALD M. NORRIS — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 20:05:33 +0000

I APPRECIATE THE INFORMATION AND THE APPROACH USED
IN THIS POST. THANK YOU. I THINK OPEN AND HONEST
DISCUSSIONS ABOUT SEX ARE DIFFICULT BECAUSE OUR
CULTURE GIVES US THE IMPRESSION IT’S NOT FOR GENERAL
CONVERSATION. MY PARENTS, MY WHOLE FAMILY, DID NOT
DISCUSS SEX. SO I ASSUMED I SHOULD NOT DISCUSS SEX.
A FEW YEARS AGO I JOINED A THERAPY CLASS AND ONE OF
THE DISSCUSSION TOPICS WAS SEX. AS AN “ICE BREAKER“
WE WERE GIVEN A LIST OF QUESTIONS ABOUT SEXUAL
OPINIONS, ATTITUDES, AND EXPERIENCES. WE WERE TO
INTERVIEW 3 PEOPLE OF OPPISITE SEX AND ASK THEM ALL
THE QUESTIONS. BEFORE ASKING ANY QUESTIONS, WE
EXPLAINED THE SITUATION, TELLING THE LADIES THAT
THERE WERE NO RIGHT OR WRONG ANSWERS AND THEY WOULD NOT BE GRADED OR JUDGED. WE ALSO TOLD THEM THEY
COULD STOP THE PROCESS AT ANY POINT AND COULD CHOOSE
NOT TO ANSWER ANY QUESTION WHICH MADE THEM UNEASY
OR UNCOMFORTABLE. I FOUND THE EXERCISE SO INTERESTING I INTERVIEWED 5 LADIES. I WAS SURPRISED
AT THEIR OPENESS AND WILLINGNESS TO ANSWER AND DISCUSS ALL THE QUESTIONS AND GIVE DETAILS OF THEIR
EXPERIENCES.