August 5, 2009

Sean Stephenson on “How To Create Deep Attraction”

Vishen Lakhiani, Sean Stephenson and Kristina Lakhiani

Vishen Lakhiani, Sean Stephenson and Kristina Lakhiani

Alright guys, I just need a moment of your time.

A few months ago I met a man who has broken every stereotype out there, demolished some of my own limiting beliefs, and is literally making the world a better place.

And he’s never set foot on the ground. I’m talking about Sean Stephenson. He’s been touted as as the next Tony Robbins and for good reason too. This man is AMAZING. Let me tell you a lil’ story about him.

He was born with every bone broken and by the time he was 18 he had already fractured 200 bones. I can’t even come to terms with that kind of pain. Told that he would die at birth, this man is undeniably one of the funniest, most inspiring, and caring people I’ve ever known.

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He just has this way with people, this energy that you can’t get enough of. I’m not kidding when I say he’s like a magnet.

He’s worked with and inspired people like Bill Clinton and Tony Robbins.

Editor’s Note: Sean Stephenson is a man who against all odds has spread love and motivation to millions in schools, companies, hospitals, prisons, and other federal agencies.

On top of that he’s made appearances on Oprah, CNN, The Discovery Health Channel, WGN, and CBS News, and in The New York Times.

Sean is also a board certified clinical psychotherapist and a Certified Trainer of Neuro-Linguistic Programming.

I even had him come all the way from the States to Bali to talk to my team about personal growth. This is how important this man is.

Sean’s an amazing guy and we really want to share his love and message with the world. This is why we’re doing an exclusive FinerMinds 3-part video series called Making Love Not War — How To Create A Deep Attraction featuring Sean.

Sean will take us on a strange and colorful journey through our minds, our belief systems, and what it takes to create a perfect relationship. And yes, love and sex are involved. But trust me, this is just a tiny fraction of his knowledge.

The first part of this video series, as the title suggests:

Shattering Your Negative Beliefs — The Growing Pains Of Love

His message is clear: You are worthy and capable of love. But you just might be perpetuating problems for yourself and attracting the wrong people. This is how to shatter your negative beliefs, conscious or otherwise.

Part 2 has been released here »

Part 3 has been released here »

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Segment 3:

Segment 4:

After you watch this video, I want you to tell me exactly what you think. The message, your own beliefs, and how you feel about attraction. Just drop a comment down below.

Editors Note: Part 2 of the Series: Making Love Not War — How To Create A Deep Attraction was already published on  FinerMinds blog. CLICK HERE to watch it »

And you can find Part 3 over here »

Cheers,

Vishen Lakhiani

PS: Picture this. Sean + the Dalai Lama + Richard Branson + ME! It’s not a fantasy. We’ll all be speaking at the Engage Today event coming up. And there might be a way for you to meet all of us…

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197 Responses to Sean Stephenson on “How To Create Deep Attraction”
  1. Wendy
    September 7, 2009 | 12:50 pm

    I live in Calgary, it’s great to hear that your all coming here, but I won’t be in town. For a long time now I have been in need of some R-n-R. I have always been a follower for the Dalai Lama, just last week I met a Buddhist Monk at Costco, it was Awesome to be able to make the clasped hand and bow. My relationship to my husband is not on great terms, we’ve been married 2 yrs and separated 2. Yeah so sad that in a matter of 2 months everything fell apart, most ppl would get annulment right away …but I held steadfast that something could be done to relinquish the relationship. I’m the one not ready to let go when most people are, those are the one’s that give up to quickly, not me. Sean is someone who is different in the eyes of others, where others could never see or understand, yet no matter how commical someone can be, the negative of one’s heart that has been cold for so long, somehow finds it’s way to the surface and begins to heal. Nothing here is sugar –coated, it is reality …it is the truth, and Sean tells it like it is, he is a man of his word! This is the place I wish my husband and I could be, but the day this happens, is the day we will be returning from our holiday. Here’s wishing you much luck!

  2. secretly changing
    September 12, 2009 | 10:16 am

    i want to watch more…
    speachless..
    now to stand up taller and bolder and do something about my situation and never give up.

  3. margo
    September 15, 2009 | 7:26 am

    I just laughed so much. Sean you love yourself and accept the gift you are to yourself and to us Yes you are so strong in a positive way and so attractive. The whole world needs your kind of love and laughter, balanced, simple and so true. May you continue to spread this confidence, love and laughter in such a nice balance

  4. sharon
    September 16, 2009 | 12:31 am

    This was wonderful and inspiring. I would love to see more.

  5. TERESA
    September 18, 2009 | 5:54 pm

    I did not want this to end ! PLEASE Sean, I want to hear more. I honestly did not want to listen at first, but by the end I was captivated, hungry for more from such a beautiful soul. I will be watching, and waiting, and craving until next time. Many blessing to you all for sharing this !

    • ruby
      March 31, 2010 | 10:53 pm

      i want to some sijation can you help me then u reply me i am wating for answer.

  6. Patricia
    September 22, 2009 | 11:33 am

    We were promised the 3rd part…Well? Pretty please?:-)

  7. Glenda
    September 23, 2009 | 6:50 pm

    May I please hear the rest of the story. It might be the only chance I have to hear more of the amazing life you live.
    You have already changed the way I feel about myself.

  8. Barbara
    October 1, 2009 | 6:47 am

    An inspiring video filled with motivation. It definitely speaks the truth. I will share it with family, friends, and coworkers.

  9. Liz
    October 24, 2009 | 7:17 pm

    Truly inspiring videos and made a lot of sense. You hear so many different thoughts of what makes men and women successful and they have a lot of truths…but Sean thoughts undoubtedly resonate with our spiritual mind…our natural mindset. When something resonates it leaves a footprint…thank you Sean.

  10. Hossein
    November 17, 2009 | 8:45 am

    Please keep on telling us that its ok to love ourselves. Please keep on talking our thoughts making them reality and teaching us how similar we are. God Almighty has given you the gift/wisdom/insight and most importantly a very strong presence that makes people immediatley trust respect and listen to you.

    Keep up the amazing work bro

    I want to see you on TV

  11. Ken
    November 18, 2009 | 4:24 pm

    I watched this video on Finer Minds, and find that what you say is exactly right — I have been afraid of being left because I was never good enough, and I held back because I have always thought my significant other would someday “find out” and leave me alone. Bless you, young man, for your insight.

  12. Karen
    November 25, 2009 | 1:17 am

    Sean’s candor and insights are marvelous. Please include more of his seminar sessions!

  13. John
    November 26, 2009 | 1:21 am

    pretty gutsy guy, makes me feel insignificant

  14. Joe
    November 26, 2009 | 11:35 pm

    Sean radiates the energy of a giant. He proves that it is not the vessel that we come into the world that is most important but our honesty and fearlessness to know our true identity as loving glorious beings. Sean you are a true inspiration

  15. Alina
    November 29, 2009 | 2:58 pm

    Sean really is a wonderful human being. Awesome vid.

    My thought on attraction if sexual attraction alone, it is it’s quite easily available, while young. True love is rarer and is the most valuable thing, after life. Would be great to be a buddha and love all/accept constantly.

    But often for me love is only a step away from hate. So have to not love sth disproportionately to everything else. Not put all your eggs in 1 basket. In case it’s dropped.

  16. CDT
    December 2, 2009 | 8:36 pm

    Attractiveness can be cultivated. I had not thought about it that way before. It is a matter of stepping out of one’s box. I can be lonely or take action to change. Sean shows that sort of courage. He is an example for all of us.

  17. Sebastian Sek
    December 3, 2009 | 7:08 pm

    Absolutly fantastic and so obvious, we attracte things in every minute, the question is why we chosing the bad ones !!!!

    Thanks Sean !!!!!

  18. Ray Budhai
    December 5, 2009 | 9:55 pm

    Absolutly amazing, Seon is truly an inspiration, listening to him made me take a second look at myself and made me realize that
    everything that I’ve thought about myself was just negative thinking. I now have the confidence to hold myself in high esteem
    with the visualization that my future will be successful if I can only apply some of Seon’s observations. I was there in grade school too and missed opportunities because I was too short, even now I still feel a bit shy to ask women out because I feel that I don’t match up. Seon’s wisdom has opened my eyes and made me realize, that negativity has been my own downfall for all these years that I’ve been harbouring in my mind. Thanks Seon,you’re God’s gift to the world. God bless!
    Regards,
    Ray Budhai.

  19. Deborah
    December 9, 2009 | 4:42 pm

    i’ve been telling everyone hearing assistance is an obstacle to slide round. no more. It’s part of me and frankly it’s the good part since it makes me want to help people who don’t know that. i’ve been attracting negative ions since I was a small child and it has reached apeak recently. Tomorrow’s a different day. I’m going back to my ‘say something nice to someone at least once a daay and watch them smile’. It releases endorphins in both of you.
    Thank you Sean

  20. pete
    January 2, 2010 | 3:16 pm

    You have already changed the way I feel about myself,

    Thanks Sean

  21. kim
    January 27, 2010 | 1:09 pm

    All i can say is “Awesome” he is so completely right on the definition of belief. I love is personality; truly amazing.

  22. robin
    January 27, 2010 | 3:59 pm

    Wow that was profound! I just made my mind up about a relationship thank you!

  23. Naomi
    March 31, 2010 | 8:15 pm

    That was AMAZING.…for the biggest part of my life, I chose abusers and men who would hurt me because my reality was that I didn’t deserve anything better.…THANK YOU SEAN.…I want MORE.…I can’t tell you how I identify with the “I’m not enough” mentality.…you are brave and intelligent beyond belief.…Naomi

  24. aurore13
    May 10, 2010 | 6:01 pm

    Such wise guidance, insights it takes many a lot longer — if at all — to come to. Blessing Sean!

    • Luis Magallon
      June 25, 2010 | 11:29 am

      Thank you Sean I think this is wath I need to improve, overall,load second part, please.…. Luis.

  25. John B
    June 7, 2010 | 11:00 am

    I’ve carried around limiting beliefs for so long and am ready to be free. Thank you for starting me down the road to healing.

  26. Fam
    June 22, 2010 | 4:14 am

    You are amazing and inspiring Sean. Thanks for sharing, it helps me mentally.

  27. Eucabeth
    June 24, 2010 | 4:10 am

    I dont think i have the right words to describe maybe awesome can as l look for another word. thank you sean please load part 2 asap.

  28. wendell
    July 1, 2010 | 7:08 am

    i just heard about sean. watched this marvelous video, all be it much too short, and for the first time in a long i felt enpowered for awhile. i have a question. i’m in relatinship and we hit a rocky spot. i have what i call cins. no confidence,insecure,needy,and that makes me look selfish. women want confidence and humour, how do regain my confidence. my homour is there but i can’t seem to my moments afraid its the wrong time or the wrong thing to say . i feel the box i’m in is getting tighter and she is getting too far away to reach. the storys i play in my mind enpower my ” cin” my confidence shrinks and my humour hides. where do i go ?

  29. Neville
    July 1, 2010 | 4:12 pm

    Dear Vishen,

    I want to thank you and Sean. These videos are perceptive, insightful and humorous all at the same time. And those are only a few of the adjectives I could use. One comment of Sean struck me deeply. It wasn’t the only one but I know space is limited. He said: ‘Confidence is about improving oneself, not proving oneself.’ How true.

    Neville

  30. mompati segokgo
    July 8, 2010 | 9:09 am

    you know i was looking at the videos above and i was very much interested to. and could you please my friend know that it cuts and take some munites to take an action and then again it takes very few seconds while he speak. i think it is a technical problems beyond my capability.

    but i would love to have this strait– away.

  31. caroleen warren
    July 8, 2010 | 6:49 pm

    That’s real powerful information . I wish it was longer . Sean is so wonderful .tih is giving me a lot to thin about in my own quest for a lasting relationship .

  32. Isabel
    July 9, 2010 | 10:03 pm

    I saw the first two parts and I was very sad at the beginning of the story but with the attitude he’d got I felt much better and it brought to me unforgettable memories and thanks to Sean and Vishen I’m gonna take seriously and for a good way since now my personal life and relationships…
    thanks a lot and God Bless all of you

  33. anna
    July 17, 2010 | 3:02 pm

    Thank you Sean.

    Deep and “simple” insights that helped me immediately, and in a moment of profound crisis in my precious relationship. I love the truth of what you tell us and I’m passing to my friends, translating for not “English speakers”.

    Be sure that your work, your love and your contribution to this world is being diffused.

    Thank you so much, Sean.

  34. LORRAINE
    July 17, 2010 | 6:18 pm

    My Father always taught me that the most beautiful person can be so ugly and the ugliest person can be so beautiful. He was so right. I find I am always attracted to people that don’t have physical beauty.

  35. maria
    July 18, 2010 | 6:02 pm

    sean this is the truth about the majority of people when they are looking for the other half. unfortunally i was confident when my other half told me that he was superfitial,i still procied with our relationship untill i found out that he wouldnt leave women and drugs he had all the habits in the world. now we are getting a divorce its verry painful but i dont see any other way he wont grow up. any advice for this sufering heart. please be honest

  36. sohlanse roponei
    August 20, 2010 | 2:22 pm

    WOW! You’re amazing and can be a kind of person people in troubled or confused relationshipneeds. The remarkable part of your presentation has been your level of communication and knowledge that really could have inspired people to start looking at these areas ann use your motodology to improve their love relationship. Sean I’ve never met a person before like you and you’re definitely a great, knowledgeable person to be around. Hope i can hear from you more. God Bless!

    Sohlanse

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