On a scale of 1 to 10 how easily would you say you relate to people? Are you the type that builds a rapport within minutes or are you someone who can spend years getting to know someone?
Most people are probably part of the latter group and to be quite honest I'm still in that group. And it's not necessarily a bad thing. As humans we have a number of fears. Rejection, pain, mistrust. All of these factors lead us to be cautious of who we let into our lives.
Unfortunately, this isn't the best mindset to have. Yes, it appears to be very practical but what if we let all those fears go. Can you imagine what meeting people for the first time would be like?
The reason why I'm bringing this up is because of this great article I found from StevePavlina.com where Steve talks about the change in mindset he underwent and the immediate benefits he found in his relationships. By opening yourself up (yes, you will have to be a little vulnerable), you are allowing a connection with humanity that is so much deeper and meaningful.
So check out the article below and let me know what you think. Is a careful, cautious mindset better or an open, trusting one?
