December 10, 2008

Who Did The Contest Queen, Carolyn Wilman, Learn From? Helene Hadsell, Of Course

by Marjam Vaher45

Update: Helene Hadsell's Book and DVD have now Launched. Please visit TheWinningSage.com

Over the past couple of weeks on FinerMinds we’ve introduced you to a remarkable woman: Helene Hadsell. She’s the 83-year-old “Winning Sage” from Alvarado, Texas who literally wins everything she wants in life through contests. Helene is the Law of Attraction in action, and she’s been doing it for 50 years.

In our last piece about Helene we guided you through her life-long winning streak. Today, we want to share with you the story of Carolyn Wilman, “The Contest Queen”, who has learned a tremendous amount from Helene Hadsell.

Carolyn’s approach to entering contests changed radically after she met Helene, and so did her ability to win! Right now Carolyn just got back from enjoying a romantic trip in London with her husband (which she won in a contest, of course!).

Here is Carolyn Wilman’s story, in her own words, of meeting Helene and the how this meeting changed her life:

Hi,

I have studied many motivational, inspirational and spiritual teachers over the past 20 years. I first read about Helene Hadsell, author of The Name It & Claim It Game on Joe Vitale’s blog in the summer of 2007. He talked about how she used her mind to focus her energy and win every contest she ever entered. WOW! As a fellow contest hobbyist and author of You Can’t Win If You Don’t Enter, I wanted to know exactly how she did that. I win a lot, but not every promotion I enter. I began writing an email to her, but for some reason it sat in my Drafts folder for months. While cleaning out my email in June of 2008 I finally completed it and sent that email to Helene. She immediately wrote me back and included her phone number. I rang her. We spoke for over an hour. I felt as if I had met a kindred soul.

During our conversation Helene agreed to be a guest on my online radio show. She was my guest on the August 4th 2008 edition of “From the Contest Queen.” (I include the date as it shows how fast you can manifest your goals, dreams, desires, and wishes into your life if you focus enough energy on them.)
During the show we talked about her entry method versus mine. She would select a prize, find a contest giving away that prize, enter, focus on it, and win. I focused on winning, but entered hundreds of contests on a daily basis. I asked her why I had not yet won a car yet. Helene said, “Dear, why do you disperse your energy over so many contests? Focus on what you really want to win and you will.”

The next day I created a new vision board, wrote up 3x5s with my new goals that I could focus on (I even hung one on the shower door) and changed my entire contest entering system.

The things I decided I wanted most in my life were:

  • To own a very profitable business
  • To be a guest on the Ellen DeGeneres Show
  • To win a new car
  • To win a week long romantic trip for two to London UK
  • To win a week long family trip for four to Walt Disney World
  • To win a home makeover
  • To win a backyard makeover
  • To win an big screen LCD HDTV
  • To win a Wii
  • To win a BlackBerry

I focused on each of these goals several times a day for a few weeks.  For the month of September, I still won my usual 5-15 prizes that month (apparently, I cannot, not win), but they were very small prizes in both size and dollar value. Where were the big prizes that Helene spoke of?  Little Miss Impatient (me) gave up. I missed entering heaps of contests. The hobby wasn’t as fun for me anymore. So I went back to entering heaps of contests every day. I began to have fun again. At the same time, I reassessed my goals. I was entering a lot of contests that offered trips as prizes, so I changed my goal of a trip to London to a romantic trip anywhere. I figured if the Universe saw fit to send me to the Caribbean, who am I to argue? I also stopped focusing on my goals every day.

On November 7th, almost three months to the day of setting my goals, I was notified I was the Grand Prize winner of the Smart Set “Meet Duffy in London” Contest!!  I was ecstatic.

The prize included:

  • A chance to meet Duffy and two tickets to her show
  • $500 spending money
  • Roundtrip airfare for two
  • 4 nights hotel accommodation
  • $500 Smart Set gift card
  • A copy of Duffy’s Rockferry CD

Two thoughts also went through my head: 1) WOW! This stuff really works and 2) Oh My Gosh, all the other goals I set for myself are on their way!

Hold on! Didn’t I ask for a weeklong trip? This was only 4 nights/5 days. I thought, “Close enough!”, and merrily made travel plans. Well, while making all the travel arrangements with the contest sponsors, Universal Music and Transat Holidays, I was informed we would be flying out December 4th and returning on December 11th. Wait, wasn’t that 6 nights/7 days? Yes. They chose to extend the trip by 2 days. So I got my week after all. I was amazed how well Helene’s SPEC Method (Select it, Project it, Expect it, and Collect it) actually worked! (Also, did you notice? I asked the Universe for what I wanted and it arrived via Universal. COOL!)

The adventure isn’t over yet!

As the information for the trip went back and forth, I realized we were not flying into Heathrow airport, but into Gatwick. (If you have never been to London, Heathrow is close to the city connected by the Underground. Gatwick is fairly far and one must take the train into the city, then changing to the Underground.) I thought OH NO! Not that I minded flying to an airport further out of the city, or even having to take the train, but our luggage is old (I bought it in 1990) and it wouldn’t be very easy to haul on and off trains. I said to my husband, we need new luggage. He started to shop around. In the meantime, I got the final travel documents. I realized Transat Holidays had included transfers to and from the airport to our hotel by car. I told my husband, since we are being chauffeured and with Christmas just around the corner, I thought we could manage another trip with our old luggage and purchase a new set in the New Year. He agreed.

Then on November 30th I got a call from Zellers. I had entered a contest way back in May and I had won. Could I come down to the store today and pick-up my brand new set of luggage? They apologized for taking so long to call me, but they had to wait for the two smaller pieces of luggage to arrive from the other contest sponsor. Incredible! That goal wasn’t even on the original list. The wish for new luggage was an afterthought and it manifested almost immediately.

I have since begun focusing on all the other goals again several times a day. Now, I wonder when my new car will arrive.
As you can well imagine, I highly recommend Helene’s book The Name It & Claim It Game to anyone who is interested in achieving their goals quickly and easily. Although the subject of the book may be based on contests, Helene’s techniques can be applied to any goal you may have: health, wealth, love, etc.

Enjoy!

Carolyn Wilman

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Update: Helene Hadsell's Book and DVD have now Launched. Please visit TheWinningSage.com

‘Tis the Season to Find the Perfect Christmas Gift

by Michelle Rogers2

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The holiday season is upon us: non-stop carols piping through the shopping malls, eggnog lattes at Starbucks, parents attempting to perch squirmy kids on Santa’s knees. Christmas is fabulous – a time to gather together to love, laugh and reflect – but it’s also overwhelming, all that cooking, eating, family time, and shopping. People frequently report it’s one of the most stressful times of the year.

One stress point is trying to find the perfect gift for your nearest and dearest. Some (perhaps more intelligent souls) will bypass the consumer element this year and forego gift giving. I definitely appreciate and acknowledge this route. Yet there remains something heart stirring about giving a thoughtful gift that you know someone will truly enjoy. It’s even better when you know the gift will add to their life in a positive way.

Here’s a list for those of you who are stuck for creative gift ideas:

1. Yoga Pass (plus mat)

Do you have a friend or family member who continues to publicize that they want to “get into yoga”? Or do you know a person close to you who enjoys yoga, but finds classes a bit pricey for their budget? Help these people out. Buy them a yoga pass (or even just a few sessions) from a yoga studio near them. The yoga mat adds a fun element to the gift. Don’t think they’d be interested in yoga, find another activity: rock-climbing, skiing, pottery, etc.

2. Magazine Subscription

A magazine subscription is a superb idea for any person who has a particular passion. Every month they’ll gain more knowledge and inspiration on something they’re deeply interested in. This Christmas, I’m giving my mom, an avid gardener, a subscription to an excellent gardening magazine. And, because I live far away from her, it’s a sweet monthly reminder of how much I love her. There is literally a magazine for any interest or hobby: running, sailing, nature, travel (Just look on Amazon).

3. Meditation Program

Do you have someone in your life who is stressed out or going through a tough time? Give them the gift of meditation. Maybe they’re too shy to buy a meditation product or perhaps they don’t know anything about meditation. A gift is an excellent opportunity to introduce meditation into their lives. I’m familiar with the AmericanMonk and the Silva Life System, both excellent meditation programs. Want to upgrade the gift? Buy an iPod and put the meditation audio files onto the iPod for them. Now that is an awesome present!

4. Collection of Personal Development Books

If you’re reading this article there is a good chance you’re interested in personal development and wellness. There is also a good chance that you read books in the area of personal development. Why not give the two or three books that you have found to be the most interesting or inspiring? If this material has added to your life, there is a high probably it will strike a chord with those around you as well.

5. Gift Certificate for a Massage

Gentlemen, listen up! A gift certificate for a massage (or facial) is a great way to tell the woman in your life how much you appreciate her. Most women give and give (and give some more). Even in egalitarian marriages where both the husband and wife work, women do more cleaning, cooking and childrearing. They rarely have time to pamper themselves. So, again, a spa day is a great way to say “thank you” for everything they do.

6. A Donation

Trying to shop for the person who has everything? Christmas is the time for giving, so truly give someone the opportunity to do just this. Go to JustGive. On this website you can buy a “GiveNow” Card, a customized charity gift card, which allows the person you give it to the chance to donate the amount to any charity in their database they wish to support. They get to choose to support a project focused on any issue that interests them, whether the environment, women’s issues, poverty, etc. How cool is that?

7. Eco-friendly Home Gift Basket

“Green” and “Eco” are on everyone’s lips these days. This Christmas, help those closest to you make their most precious space – their home – more environmentally friendly and healthy. Get a basket or pail and fill it with non-toxic products for their home: hand soap, detergent, dish washing liquid, house cleaner, etc. Better for their health and better for the world! Check out SeventhGeneration for ideas.

8. A Letter

Don’t have a lot of money and want to give something straight from your heart? Write a letter (not an e-mail, a proper letter!) to each of your loved ones telling them just how much they mean to you and how much you appreciate them. Tell them exactly what you feel and exactly what they add to your life. I promise you they will never forget this gesture of kindness.

Please help to add to this list by sharing any gifts that you’ve received that have had a positive impact on your life.

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